It’s the first week of January and you’re back to the grind… you have made your new year’s resolution(s) and are staying on track. Of course it has only been a couple of days, but still, it is important to realize your accomplishments.
And for a lot of us, our main resolution is about losing weight, eating better, working out, etc. A few other goals that are common include reading more, spending more quality time with people we love, and being more efficient at work. These too are important resolutions but usually don’t require too much commitment or conscious effort. But they are important nonetheless. So, let’s get back to the hardest one we all struggle with… losing weight.
Being closer to 50 now than 40, this old dog has fought the “battle of the bulge” year after year and has usually lost. I have gained and lost the same 20 pounds three or four times over recent years. It’s frustrating, most of the time it seems hopeless, and a lot of women around my age can relate.
So picture hitting about January 20-something… you’ve done great for about three weeks on eating better and moving more. But, it’s about 4 o’clock in the afternoon at work; you’ve had a long, drawn-out day full of meetings; you have a few more things you need to finish up for the day, and you have a workout already planned for after work. But someone has brought in leftover cookies in the break room (because they probably are trying to keep their resolution too!). The cookies are calling out your name. Are you able to fight the urge to grab one, or several? Are you confident that you can see the cookies, smell the cookies, and yet still not eat any and stick with your resolution?
I’m no expert by any means and probably more than half of the time I would grab the cookie in the break room, but this time, I won’t. And when I don’t give in, it’s an accomplishment for me. I find peace and happiness in those small victories.
So, if you too struggle with willpower and are constantly “battling the bulge,” here are a few tips I have learned over the years to help you gain at least a few small victories of your own, and keep your resolutions.
So, if occasionally the battle defeats you… don’t beat yourself up about it. Life is too short to not eat the cookie every once in a while. Enjoy it, but move on and keep fighting the good fight. Remember, a resolution is not just for the month of January. It’s the entire 2017 so you have 12 months to work on it! Happy New Year to all!